Honor Vite server and optimizer configuration

[raphamorim]

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[raphamorim]

Reviewed against the Vite source, rebased onto main (post 0.2.8), and fixed the findings in place. All fixes are amended into the original commit.

Root cause behind most findings: the extractor reads Vite's resolved config, where defaults are indistinguishable from user intent (resolveConfig fills optimizeDeps.noDiscovery: false, brace-form server.fs.deny, empty warmup arrays). Adoption is now gated on the raw user config where that matters.

Findings fixed:

1. noDiscovery default adopted as explicit. Every app without optimizeDeps would cross noDiscovery: false as a user setting. Now only crosses when the raw config sets a boolean.
2. Empty warmup arrays emitted. Vite's resolved default is { clientFiles: [], ssrFiles: [] }; we now emit only non-empty filtered lists.
3. warnUnsupported regressions. The narrowed warnings for optimizeDeps.esbuildOptions.plugins, rolldownOptions.plugins, and the rollupOptions spelling were dropped; restored.
4. warmup_paths matching. Patterns like ./src/*.tsx never matched (no ./ normalization), roots with glob metacharacters broke matching, and ! exclusions compared against absolute paths. Now: ./ stripped, root escaped with glob::Pattern::escape, exclusions matched root-relative (Vite's warmup.ts semantics).
5. fs.deny brace patterns. The glob crate has no brace expansion, so Vite's default-shaped **/{.git,node_modules}/** style deny entries silently matched nothing. Added recursive {a,b} expansion.
6. jsx translation. rolldownOptions.transform.jsx can be an object; esbuild's jsx option is string-only, so an object crossed as garbage. Only strings cross now (define/target/keepNames/drop unchanged).
7. noDiscovery missing from the optimizer cache key. Toggling it changed the run but not lockfile_hash, so a stale bundle survived the toggle. Shared effective_auto_discover now feeds both the run and the hash.
8. SSR warmup transform loop. Transforming ssrFiles inline duplicated work and ran before the hook plan existed; replaced with priming the SSR plugin host's hook plan when ssrFiles are present, so warmup goes through the gated path.

Also: the "settings survive actual config loading" test invoked vite-extract.mjs as a CLI, which no longer exists after the engine-job move; rewired to the extraction wrapper the rest of the suite uses. Added regression tests for 1, 4, 5, 6 (plus a real-vite test proving resolved defaults do not cross), and gave the e2e harness rmSync retries to fix an ENOTEMPTY cleanup race in the new vite-config-adoption e2e.

Verified by exit codes: cargo test -p oj_server -p oj_config -p oj, node --test e2e/unit (265 pass), node e2e/run.mjs, node e2e/vite-config-adoption.mjs x3.